Remembering Valentine's Day

I was buying Valentine's cards yesterday, and was reminded of how difficult those first few were for me after my divorce, and then the death of my husband soon after. We celebrate love on Valentine's Day, and typically it is romantic love. We all know someone who has lost a loved one this year, either through a relationship ending, a death or divorce. There is a hole in their heart that you can help fill. Just because you cannot replace the missing piece, does not mean you should not reach out with care and love. A card, box of chocolate, flowers, phone call or even an extra hug can make that person feel connected to a holiday that can tend to make them feel very alone. Unlike Christmas and Thanksgiving, where we "know" to remember our friends and family, Valentine's Day and wedding anniversaries may be especially difficult for people. Share some love this Valentine's Day, not just with those closest to you but with those who may need it even more.

Happy Valentine's Day! Janice