Jan 19, 2009

A Legacy, and "New" History

Today is Martin Luther King's Birthday, and the day before we inaugurate our newest President. The first one of color. And he will inherit the most complex combination of challenges in at least half a century.

I have two quotes to offer to you that struck me as appropriate to honor both King's legacy, and O'bama's beginning in such uncertain times. It seems fitting that the second is offered as a quote from another famous American, Shirley Chisholm.

"There are some things you learn best in calm, and some in storm."
- Willa Cather

and
"Service is the rent we pay for the privelage of living on this earth."
- Shirley Chisholm
It may sometimes take great storms to cleanse, and reevaluate what really matters. We offer our very best wishes to our next President, his family, our new Vice President and cabinet, and to all the staff that contribute each day within the Executive Branch of our democracy.
We also off a heart felt thank you to those who have served in those same roles over the last 8 years. Some will be heading "home" soon, and we wish them the best as they resume life outside Washington. Travel safe.

Jan 4, 2009

What Matters at Year End

Welcome to the New Year.

Most years, I have found it hard to remember to write the new correct year on my checks and documents. This year, it has been no problem. I am guessing we have all been living slightly ahead, in hope and anticipation that 2009 could possibly be a little better than 2008.

Living ahead is not something I propose, in fact I work hard to stay present-focused. I was able to do that over Christmas, partly because my Mom stayed with us for a month due to an illness and health-scare resulting in the need for evaluations at our university hospital system here.
Having lost several close relatives in the recent past, and reflecting how her grave marker is the only unoccupied spot left in our family cemetary, I purposefully put aside important work to be with her, and "with" the holiday.

This was a big decision; as a small company most of the operations depend upon me. I carefully prioritized client needs, and deferred any optional meetings and deadlines. We prioritized extra special outside lighting, thanks to my daughter and her friends. We watched tv and movies on days she did not feel well. And I erred on the side of extra gifts, things that I knew would make her smile as I did not want to awaken next Christmas wishing I had been more generous.

We were blessed with good reports on three different procedures, and a diagnosis that is manageable with (very expensive) medication. Almost immediately, Mom's color and appetite improved and we were able to attend Christmas Eve church services as always. We enjoyed our traditional dinner out before services, and had a greater appreciation that she could order anything she wanted to eat. The communion and candlelight service was more meaningful and memorable for me this year. We had been blessed not only with Mom's returning health, but especially blessed to have had the opportunity to be reminded of what really matters.

So I am "digging out" of Springboard work, and enjoying it very much. It is so fulfilling to be doing work that matters to my soul. I missed seeing some friends, and delivering some gifts that I normally do. My closet did not get cleaned out for donations to Goodwill, but then, there is 2009. Things that could wait, waited. Things that really matter did not.

Blessings to all of you in this New Year of hope and promise. Janice

Nov 20, 2008

Kids and Economic uncertainty

We have added this link to our home page, and also here for your convenience.
It applies to adolescents and teens and encourages communication and reassurance.
Click here for Tips on Helping Kids Cope with Economic Uncertainty - November 13, 2008
Take a look, Janice

Nov 2, 2008

The Springboard Group - LaunchingNewLives.com

The Springboard Group - LaunchingNewLives.com
I found this new quote on courage last week:

"You can't test courage cautiously."Anne Dillard

Many times I have wished I could just stick a baby toe out into the unknown! So whether you need more courage, or more faith, this week it is time to trust your inner voice and make a choice. There are no crystal balls, unfortunately, and much at stake.

If your life is already in a transition period, it is not comforting to have the whole country joining in the uncertainty. Let's hope that with the completion of the campaigns, there will be some settling in the markets post-election, and some returning economic stability.

And may our next President find the proper balance of caution and boldness to rebuild our foundation for the future.

Oct 28, 2008

Dare to Dream ?

My life events are not unique. Just listen to the passion of the 2008 campaign as people struggle within the greatest country of modern times. Many have lost homes, retirement savings, jobs, and health benefits. They may lose more if their marriages or health do not survive the stress.

I was blessed with a twenty year marriage, successful career, and a beautiful daughter. Then the next 5 years brought divorce, the suicide of my ex-spouse, single parenting, the death of my father, health issues for me and my Mom, job loss, and astronomical private health premiums. And now? I am a small business owner in the midst of an economic recession!

In reality, it is unusual to have a lifetime of challenge compressed into so few years, and it compounds the consequences. Similarly, had the current confluence of issues facing the United States arisen singularly and separated by sufficient time, we may have managed without the avalanche effect of the past few weeks. The combination triggered a loop of fear and uncertainty, destabilizing our economy. It was not a pebble, but a boulder that crashed into the global pond.

Through the lens of my life, I see lessons on a larger scale for us as a nation. Losses that could have overwhelmed in fact awakened me. Had each experience been spread over, say 20 years, I would not have been so compelled to found a company to help people grow through their own transitions. My passion was ignited, and became a catalyst for Springboard™, so named to describe the power of using life’s lowest points as a launching point for creating a new, often better life.

This election will set the course for the next four years. Many worry that our golden days are behind us, but what if this low point initiated a period of innovation and growth? The fact that we are in debt, at war, and in housing and financial market crises may very well be sufficient incentive to park fear and dare to solve problems we have ignored, such as energy innovation, restoring our environment and rehabilitating social programs. We were inspired and emboldened to meet Kennedy’s challenge to land on the moon. Belief is half the battle, so what if we dared to believe? Isn’t that what our founding fathers did?

Let’s make our current crisis a new beginning to fuel collaboration and exceed expectations. A crisis transforms; without challenge to the status quo, there is no compelling reason to risk change, make transcendent leaps or fully challenge beliefs. Our untapped potential includes involving all Americans in caring and contributing to a rebirth. We strayed from the fundamentals that built our economic and world leadership strength. By tapping our full capacity of innovation and ingenuity, we can channel current fear and anxiety into shaping a richer future than we would have otherwise achieved.

It is said that people change when their fear of not changing is greater than their fear of change. In this election, people understand each voice matters, and they are mandating a complete redirection in leadership. Our new President must guide and compel, and it may be years before we declare this “mission fully accomplished”.

I believe we will reflect on this critical point in our nation’s course as a time when we accepted and exceeded the challenge. Unlike the era surrounding our nation’s birth, we have a diverse cultural compilation of human experience in endurance, plus technology and innovation which strengthens our chance for success. Let’s not settle for merely surviving our current crises. My hope is that we mine this opportunity to secure a sound legacy for our children, and in unleashing our true potential, create a future that is uniquely American.

Vote November 4

Aug 14, 2008

Quote for reflection
This week many of us are focused on the incredible human achievements of Olympic competition. It seems to be a good time to consider a quote by John Wayne, on Courage.

"Courage is being scared to death-and saddling up anyway"

Courage is not the absence of fear, but the mastery.
  • How are you showing courage in your life?
  • Have you been surprised by your capacity for courage?